{"id":48,"date":"2020-02-01T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2020-02-01T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lakeandhomes.com\/blog\/?p=48"},"modified":"2021-11-13T18:27:46","modified_gmt":"2021-11-13T18:27:46","slug":"ive-learned-that","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandpointrealtyidaho.com\/blog\/2020\/02\/01\/ive-learned-that\/","title":{"rendered":"I&#8217;ve learned that&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<body><p>I\u2019ve learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don\u2019t care back<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that it\u2019s not what you have in your life, but who you have in your life that counts.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that you can get by on charm for about 15 minutes. After that, you\u2019d better know something.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that you shouldn\u2019t compare yourself to the best others can do, but to the best you can do.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that it\u2019s not what happens to people that\u2019s important. It\u2019s what they do about it.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that no matter how thin you slice it, there are always two sides.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that it\u2019s taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that it\u2019s a lot easier to react than it is to think.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that you can keep going long after you think you can\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place. (Amen to that!)<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that learning to forgive takes practice.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that there are people who love you dearly, but just don\u2019t know how to show it.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that money is a lousy way of keeping score.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you\u2019re down will be the ones to help you get back up.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that I\u2019m getting more and more like my grandma, and I\u2019m kinda happy about it.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that sometimes when I\u2019m angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn\u2019t give me the right to be cruel.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that just because someone doesn\u2019t love you the way you want them to doesn\u2019t mean they don\u2019t love you with all they have.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you\u2019ve had and what you\u2019ve learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you\u2019ve celebrated.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that you should never tell a child her dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if she believed it<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that your family won\u2019t always be there for you. It may seem funny, but people you aren\u2019t related to can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again. Families aren\u2019t biological.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that no matter how good a friend someone is, they\u2019re going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that it isn\u2019t always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn\u2019t stop for your grief.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that sometimes when my friends fight, I\u2019m forced to choose sides even when I don\u2019t want to.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that just because two people argue, it doesn\u2019t mean they don\u2019t love each other. And just because they don\u2019t argue, it doesn\u2019t mean they do.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that sometimes you have to put the individual ahead of their actions.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that we don\u2019t have to change friends if we understand that friends change.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that if you don\u2019t want to forget something, stick it in your underwear drawer.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that you shouldn\u2019t be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that the clothes I like best are the ones with the most holes in them.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that no matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt and you will hurt in the process.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that there are many ways of falling and staying in love.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that no matter the consequences, those who are honest with themselves, get farther in life.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that many things can be powered by the mind, the trick is self-control.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that no matter how many friends you have, if you are their pillar, you will feel lonely and lost at the times you need them most.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don\u2019t even know you.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that writing, as well as talking, can ease emotional pains.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that the paradigm we live in is not all that is offered to us.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that although the word \u201clove\u201d can have many different meaning, it loses value when overly used.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned that it\u2019s hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people\u2019s feelings and standing up for what you believe.<\/p>\n<p>Author Unk.<\/p>\n<\/body>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ve learned that you cannot make someone love you. 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